She and Her Girls (2024) 山花烂漫时

Summary: In 2008, middle aged teacher, Zhang Gui Mei (ft Song Jia) is determined to open a fully funded all girls school in the poor Hua Ping district of Yunnan province. She’s seen too many girls, forced by their parents and family, give up their futures to work or get married at a young age. She believes education is their ticket to more opportunities and strives to open a school for these young girls. She finally secures the initial funding to build and open her school, but that is just the beginning of this battle. She must persuade teachers to join her staff. She must persuade the young girls to attend her school. She must secure continued funding to run this school. She must ensure the students perform well during the critical Gao Kao exam. Zhang Gui Mei never gave up in her journey to give a home to these young girls and show them a path towards a brighter future.

 

Total Episode Count: 23

Initial Airing Date: September 10, 2024

Platform: CCTV, Tencent

*Note – English translations may not match official translations

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Final Rating: 8.9/10 –  One of the best dramas of the year, it is a heartwarming, thoughtful, tearjerker story that follows the journey of Zhang Gui Mei, her teachers, and her students as they overcome inconceivable odds to establish an the first free all-girls school in China to give these girls a possibility for a brighter future.  

Zhang gui mei 张桂梅

song jia 宋佳

Long time teacher who dreams of establishing an free all-girl school and give girls opportunities to leave the mountains

zhou shan qun 周善群

nie yuan 聂远

Local Education Director who goes to bat countless times for Zhang Gui Mei in her mission 

ma yong qian 马永强

jiang chao 姜超

Deputy County Mayor in charge of education for the country who also tries his best to help Zhang Gui Mei wherever possible

fang qiong 方琼

cai xi wen 曹曦文

Local journalist and best friend of Zhang Gui Mei. She helps run co-run an orphanage with Zhang Gui Mei

gu yu 谷雨

lan xi ya 兰西雅

A bright young girl who was originally sent off to be married at 14 but grabs the lifeline from Mrs. Zhang and attends high school

cai gui zhi 蔡桂芝

dou lan 都兰

An intelligent girl with a loving father who’s abusive to his mother. Protecting her mother is a deciding factor on whether she attends school 

liu xi ying 柳细莺

fe shi yu 合诗雨

Married at a young age, her husband’s house is destroyed during a flood and she decides to attend school

ning hua 宁华

yang yan jia 杨颜嘉

Raised as a boy by a disappointed grandfather, she never knew girls could be equally valued as boys until she attended school

chen si hai 陈四海zhang tian yang 张天阳

Administrator for the girls school, he runs the day to day operations of the school

ding xiao xiao 丁笑笑

zhang yue 张月

Math teacher for the students and comes from a privileged background. She wants to prove to her parents the path she chose

wei ting yun 魏庭云

huang mi yi 黄米依

Chinese language teacher who returns to Hua Ping County to give back to her home, she knows how difficult it is for these young girls to even attend school

yao xiao shan 姚小山

zhai zi lu 翟子路

Chemistry teacher who follows Wei Ting Yun on this career. Despite his own struggles, he embraces his role as teacher for the young girls

Final Thoughts

The story is based off of the true events of Principal Mrs. Zhang Gui Mei and her mission to establish the first free all-inclusive all girls high school in the poor mountainous county of Hua Ping in Yunnan Province in 2008. In a sea of dramas that portray the extravagance, wealth, and technology of the major cities of Shanghai and Beijing, this drama brings us to the poor mountains of Yunnan (southwest China). In the 21st century, there are still people who are poor, uneducated, and have never left the mountains. For these families, young girls are viewed as chattel, to be sold off as a wives or forced to work, so that the money can be used to send the boys to school or support the family instead. There was no future for these girls. The teacher Zhang Gui Mei refused to accept this reality and fought tooth and nail to establish a safe and free school for girls to attain an education because college was the only way out of the mountains for these girls.

This is my favorite drama of the year. There’s just so much to enjoy about this drama (which I’ll dive into below) but perhaps most importantly, it showcased a woman (middle-age to boot) who strove to do something because she absolutely believed in it. This isn’t one of those dramas where her primary motivating factor is still a man or that she achieved everything due to men. Sure, she had help from men, but she was still the primary driving force. When we talk about “female empowerment”, Zhang Gui Mei is the shining example. 

Song Jia does an excellent job depicting Zhang Gui Mei. I suspect it helps that they’re both from the same province. Song Jia portrays a determined, loving, yet stubborn woman who will not stop until she is able to provide the best for her students. We rarely get middle aged women in juicy dramas like this for a woman to share such a positive message but we have this drama exactly because there’s a living historical figure still championing the same mission she’s had for her whole life. 

The drama moves at a brisk pace so that it doesn’t feel bloated, allows many characters to shine, and tells a powerful story. In conclusion, more dramas should be like this.

I’ve been seeing buzz gradually grow for this drama on social media and this really truly is a drama that grew popularity based on this word of mouth. With all this buzz, I had my eye on it and basically binged all 23 episodes in 3 days. This became a ratings hit on CCTV, breaking the 2% barrier and topping the ratings for live TV. This drama now boasts a whopping 9.0 on Douban. This drama is primed for awards next year and I would be shocked if it Song Jia doesn’t win something for Best Actress. 

 

What I liked – I’m going to try to keep this as spoiler free as possible

  • There’s no true antagonist. It’s a fight against the tradition: Zhang Gui Mei, the teachers, and the girls aren’t fighting against anyone in particular, but the result of thousands of years of patriarchal culture, poverty, and superstitions against women. It is such a TOUGH battle. The families in the mountains still prefer boys to girls and will always sacrifice the girl’s future if it meant protecting the boy’s future. These girls knew of nothing different and accepted that there was nothing more in life besides bearing children and working on the farm. Zhang Gui Mei wanted to change these girls lives through education. If these girls could graduate college and work at well paying jobs, this would create a ripple effect for other families to send their girls to school and break this vicious cycle. This drama showed us just how hard it was to break this cycle. These families often were too poor to send anyone to school, lived too far for children to attend school, or if there was money, would use it on the boy instead. I was naive to discover that these events occurred as recently as 2008 but not shocked. Despite the outstanding strides China has made in the past century, old habits die hard and it was heartbreaking to watch the girls who were discarded.
  • Realistic struggles and strength for all involved: I’ll admit, I cried every other episode because of how realistic the struggles were for each character and the fortitude they all showed to make this school a success. The students chose to attend school even though they might have had nothing, started with an elementary school education, or families who didn’t believe in education for girls. Each had a different backstory, yet they still chose to attend school because they believed in a better future if they could perform well on their high school Gao Kao exam. The teachers had to teach these students who didn’t have a good foundation to become college ready, were poorly paid, and do literally everything else in the school. Some couldn’t make it but we understood their position. Principal Zhang Gui Mei had to run the school, obtain funding, and produce results. Even the government officials had their hands tied with how to obtain funding or approval for this school. All the odds were stacked against them but they worked together to make their scrappy school a success.  
  • Positivity, generosity, and humor: I think the drama captures the essence of Zhang Gui Mei, which is to have a positive outlook mixed in with a little humor. In interviews with the real Zhang Gui Mei, she’s revealed to be a funny woman who let’s out a few swear words here and there. That atmosphere permeates throughout the drama. Whether that is how Zhang Gui Mei interacts with her students, how the teachers interact with the students, or even how the students interact with each other, everyone is there rooting for everyone else to succeed. Sure, there are some dark moments but the drama never veers into self-pity or truly dark territory where it becomes a slog to watch. All of the characters, with a little encouragement, believe that there’s light at the end of the tunnel and will adamantly march forward to that light.

  • Sisterhood: Since the drama involves a high school, there is inevitably competition. But none of the competition turns catty or toxic. Just when I think come relationships might sour, I get pleasantly surprised with the outcome. It’s never a competition on who has the saddest backstory or who has the best grades. Rather, this friendly competition spurs everyone to perform better. These young girls, who have come from nothing, all support each other and raise each other up to be the best versions of themselves. This is what sisterhood should be about. I also loved the portrayal that these are just teens too. They’re rash. They’re insecure. They’re curious. They’re nervous of the future. That’s every young girl! When one girl believes she’s in love, her dormmates have some hilarious reactions.
  • Great Life Lessons: Sure, some of the life lessons here are a bit heavy handed, but nonetheless needed in the context of this drama.  For example, selling yourself for 30K at the age of 13 is not a good investment. Another example is time is the biggest factor against education but it’s well worth it. There’s one instance where a young man is taught a crucial lesson about real life that is a slap in the face of many romance dramas. In several of these instances, the teachers want to impart their wisdom but know that it’s better learned by the student through personal experience rather than from lecture
  • Authenticity: The drama was filmed on location in Yunnan province, with many of the actors and actresses learning the local Yunnan dialects. I was pleasantly surprised to hear Nie Yuan chatting away in the dialect even though I know for a fact that he is not local. This extends to the actresses for the students and several teachers too. There’s similarities between the Sichuan dialects and the Yunnan dialects so I could understand most of it, but I’ll need a local Yunnan person to tell me how accurate these accents are, but at least they tried! The fact that these actors and actresses COULD act in a different dialect is extremely commendable compared to several actors who can’t even speak Mandarin properly. The cast also dressed age appropriately and had minimum make up. For once, I noticed that these young girls had pimples! My reaction was, finally! It wouldn’t make sense for young teenage girls to not have any acne on their faces. The drama doesn’t shy away at the abject poverty of the remote villages, nor does it hide from the rather poor amenities of the school. We are presented with a rather accurate portrayal of the situation. A poor school, in a poor county, trying its best for its poor students.

What Could Have Been Better

  • Overtly Red Messaging: Honestly, I can’t fault the drama for incorporating this because apparently Zhang Gui Mei promoted a lot of these messages in her school. I just rolled my eyes at some scenes where teachers were pledging to the party, but that’s a very small nit in the grand scheme of things.

Stray Observations:

There were so many cameos of middle aged actors and actresses in this drama! From Ding Xiao Xiao’s parents, to every government official, I was like, oh hey! Glad to see you here.

The actress for Gu Yu, Ya Lan Xi, just looks SO young! She could totally pass for a 14 year old despite being 25 when she filmed it! The other student actresses are still in there early 20s and in college so they were all highly believable as young high school students. 

The true story of Zhang Gui Mei is just as impactful. She told her students to never look back to return to the mountains and contribute however they can. Many of her students are now doctors, policewomen, lawyers, and teachers, each giving back in their own way. Zhang Gui Mei now does not accept donations to her school but instead requests that donations be giving to the county.

 

Go ahead and watch this drama!

Cathy

 

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